11. You often wonder who you really are.
It’s likely that you are unclear on your purpose in life, or perhaps struggle to set goals. You might even have an identity crisis.
12. Your secret fear is of being rejected or abandoned.
Lacking healthy boundaries goes back to childhood. It often means you didn’t have a caregiver who provided unconditional love and acceptance. You had to do what others wanted to avoid being rejected or abandoned. And now as an adult those are the two things you fear most.