1. Your relationships tend to be difficult or dramatic.
The less you set healthy boundaries, the more you give others a signal that you don’t know how to take care of yourself. This leaves you open to attracting will people who want to control you. Or you might lack such a sense of power from never standing up for yourself that you resort to unconscious manipulation yourself. This means you are constantly in codependent relationships and friendships that lack an equal exchange of give and take.
2. You find decision making a real challenge.
You can end up spending so much of your life doing what others want that you lose a sense of self. This means you often don’t know what you do or don’t want. Faced with a decision, you blank.