9. Incontinence

Both urinary incontinence (loss of bladder control) and fecal incontinence (loss of bowel control) are common near the end of life.4
Incontinence can be a result of surgery or illness, or because the person is simply too weak to go to the bathroom. At the very end, when the urinary and bowel muscles relax entirely, the person will have no control over these functions.
If a loved one soils or pees on themselves, it is important to clean them immediately to prevent irritation, sores, and infections that cause pain.